I have a thing for music that speaks to my soul… Way back in 1994, Mary J Blige belted out in a hard biting, sultry voice: “How can I love somebody else, when I can’t love myself enough to know when it’s time to let go?” I froze immediately and thought…DAMN! She just spoke my […]

Okay Wildflowers, I’m going to say this early so you don’t think that I’m leading you on a wild goose chase… He’s not sending you mixed signals; you just don’t like what the signals are saying. There, I said it, but now let me explain!  Mixed signals is code for you not getting what you […]

I absolutely love Beyonce’s song Flawless!  I can’t think of a bigger boost to my self-esteem than singing loud and proud that “I woke up flawless!” It’s energetic, uplifting, and empowering while promoting the well-being of women!  That is a lot to pull off in one song! My issue is that it can be a little […]

If you are like most Wildflowers, you’ve asked yourself this question too many times to keep count. I remember sitting across from a dear friend over dinner, as she described to me why her new boyfriend was her dream man. She was elated with how easily he brushed it off when she would lash out furiously […]